A little while ago, I said I had nothing much to say about my situation!  Here I am a third time today!  What was I thinking?  He just gets me sooo mad!  Who the hell does he think he is?  Oh yeah, he told me to stop being irrational!  I laughed at that, too.  That was the clue to me that she was standing there listening!  Not that I care, but what a jerk!  As far as my realtionship goes with him, I am SO glad its over!  But now with the custody and the support thing going on, I hate him!  He is such an asshole!  He really thinks I am going to fall for his tricks again!  He wants to do the custody without lawyers.  I know its because he thinks he can get away with not paying me as much a I think he should!  He thinks he will go to court, and they will say, oh Mr S, you only have to pay x amount you poor man.  Your wife left you and now look at you!  I feel so sorry for you!  But in reality, they will say the opposite!  And I think he knows this because why would he want to do it ourselves and not get lawyers involved? He burns me, and pisses me off so much! 

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Well if you were getting along better I would suggest a paralegal and it would save some cash but since he seems to be such an ass I don\'t think that would work well for you. In CA is all a Formula they look at what you make and what he makes and then they say who owes who to what. Not much a lawyer can do about it. Good luck with all of this I think you are going to need it with this con man you once called H.