Well, I just got off the phone with him!  What an ASS!  He asked me to calculate what child support might be fair, and I do,  on this website.  Mind you its just a calculation!  He gets mad at me for saying something, I dont even remember, and he jumps and says, Ill see you in court!  Im like, WTF!  You asked me to do a calculation, so I do, and you threaten me with court!  I know what it was, she was there!  DUH!  So he tells me he only makes $30,000.00 a year.  Probably so, but he is such a jerk!!  I know I wont get much from him in the way of support.  He doesnt have it first of all, and second, he will fight me for his own stupid stubborn reasons.   He just really pisses me off!  I tell him this is a calculation, something he asked me to do, and I do it, then he talks to me the way he does.  I cant wait for him to talk to her that way!  She wont even notice it at first, but then she will get tired of it.  What woman wouldnt?So, thats it.  Jack ass!!!!

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Oh that is so hard to deal with a STBX that is not 1) truthful, 2) wants it their way or no way. 3) They just want to be selfish.

I wish I had advise but honestly know how you feel.