I feel really good tonight!  Some things I found out this week may not be true about him, but the fact is, people are saying them.  That does not make it true, but non the less...I know for a fact the house is in the foreclosure process again.  I know for a fact he borrowed money from "Jim".  $74,000.00 worth of borrow!  Whether "Jim" is a loan shark or not, stbx still owes him that money!   I also know that he has to do x amount of hours of shooling before he can become a real fireman.  NOT that there is anything wrong with that, but I am pretty sure he will never do it!  Yeah, right, hes gonna go to school.  I mean, he might, but I highly doubt it.  He is (or was) always too tired because he worked too hard to do anything!   Im just glad this is over.  The divorce is not final yet, but in my head and my heart it is.  I feel really good!  With that, Im done for now:)