Almost ran into HER yesterday.  M and the kids did, I was still in the store.  I really think I have to sit back and laugh at her.  I know what she is doing, and i know she is wasting her time.  He will never change, and he will never pay his bills!  She will have to burden herself with him and his problems now. He can ruin her credit.   I know she thinks she can change him.  And his ways.  I also know she never will.  He wouldnt change for me and the kids, why would he change for her?  He wont!  He owes SO much money, he is SO far in the hole!  I really have to laugh at what she thinks she is doing.  What a joke.