Have been ok since last entry.  I closed all my journal entries to private, just in case he got on here.  I dont trust her!  If he tells her about this, she might try to find something out.  Well, I found out today that he hasnt paid emilys tuition but once and is late with it.  I also know he is late with johns payment.  SO, i contacted social services and have an appointment next week to talk about j's schooling.  AND i have paper work to be completed for e's schooling.  I know this means he is getting away with things again, but i have to take care of the kids because he isnt.  This has been the main reason why I left him in the first place.  I know he cant/wont do it.  He is either too lazy or too stupid, or doesnt have the money.  M I think is mad at this, but I have to take care of the kids.  It actually makes me feel good that I am doing it, that I have become independent enough and not reliable on him any more.  smile