Am feeling great about things in my life right now.  My sister can go...I will be nice.  My mom and I are doing great.  I am not taking advantage of her, and she loves us being here. M and I are doing great.  Couldnt be more happy with him.Stbx is so far out of the picture, it really feels great.  I am no longer wondering, worrying, and thinking about what ifs.  I am so glad that is over.  I look at him without any feeling.  Thank God.  I know I did the right thing.I just hate the gf.  I only hate her when she is with the kids.  Thats all.  I could care less she is with him.  That doesnt bother me at all.  I know she has his problems, that he treats her like he treated me, and that things will just get worse with them.  All in due time.  But when I heare she is with the kids?  It digs.  Thats all.  I have to get over it, and I will. HAPPY NEW YEAR!  2008 WILL BE GREAT!!!!