My daughter had a birthday party and it went excellent. However my computer crashed after they were using it and I got so despondent and after four or five hours of trying to fix it I got into a major rut I just could not seem to get myself out of. Even though I don't yell and scream I could tell later how much my frustration and sadness had affected my wife and daughter. I was so sorry and somewhat ashamed. It helped me get things back into perspective as to what is important and what things are small potatoes. I family being the former and a lousy computer glitch be in the latter. I really hope this is something I can remember and not let my frustrations negatively affect my family in the future. I just have such a hard time letting go some time and I never used to be like this.