Here we go again

I had just laid down to rest when the phone rang.  I should have let Fred answer it but, he was watching the game.  Guess who was calling again?  She asked to come over to use the computer for school work because the library was closed.  I told her yes only if she was nice and no fighting.  She asked if her dad was here and I said yes.  She said see you later.  I got up and walked into the front room and told Fred that I was going to unsuspend the computer so Sara can come and do her school work.  He came unglued.  He made me cry because he said some very bad things about Sara.  He said that he was going to leave while she was here.  There is no way she will be in my house when I know that I haven't done anything wrong and she wished that I wasn't her father.  I thought about it and he is right.  I called Sara back and told her that she would have to find somewhere else to work unless she appoligised (sp) to her father for saying what she said to him.  This really ticked her off.  She refused to say sorry and told me that she never should have called in the first place and hung up on me.  I miss my daughter very much.  She is the one who walked out on us leaving us holding the big bag of debt.  I am the type of person who is willing to forgive but I will never forget what she has done.  I am right in the middle of this whole messed up thing amd it hurts.