I thought this might help some people it helped me explaining things.  my partner in crime is hispanic and does not speak alot of english so when it came time to explain to him my problems it was hard.  So I searched the net for info in spanish and here it what helped me explain to him what was happening.  www.umm.edu/ency/article/000427.htm I think he would have left me by now had I not found and provided him with a little info so that he wouldn't think I was completely insane.He helps me get through the rough days by not letting me get to lazy.