Making habit of counting my food items at days end. I'm glad to be eating better. I tend to eat snacks instead of 3 meals a day.
A lot of growth spurts at work. Some issues occuring and getting resolved, and others surfacing - I am part of a sick oranism. In some ways it is healthy.
I am having a hard time with my role in picking up and spending time with J, and even time with his Dad T which is far far less. I enjoy company with him - sometimes. He's rebounded and such an unrecovered Al Anon, and asking me some Al Anon tools lately.
Sometimes I'm absolutly exhausted and just want to retreat and rest and do MY routine - I have neglected this. I am giving - of my time, money and help. And what about ME? It is up to be to get my own recovery - no one will do it for me.
A lot of growth spurts at work. Some issues occuring and getting resolved, and others surfacing - I am part of a sick oranism. In some ways it is healthy.
I am having a hard time with my role in picking up and spending time with J, and even time with his Dad T which is far far less. I enjoy company with him - sometimes. He's rebounded and such an unrecovered Al Anon, and asking me some Al Anon tools lately.
Sometimes I'm absolutly exhausted and just want to retreat and rest and do MY routine - I have neglected this. I am giving - of my time, money and help. And what about ME? It is up to be to get my own recovery - no one will do it for me.
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hi Loved!, one thing my sponsor shared with me is the following when it comes to doing for others:
TOAD:
do I have the time?
opportunity?
the ability?
and desire?
if they are all aligned, then the time is right,
and if not, then not :)
not sure if this can help :)...First Things First :0)
hugs
gricelda
sorry.. just going..
not sure if all of this helps
hugs,
gricelda
and for me, since sometimes I have litmied resources in terms of money,
I try to ask \"can I afford it?\"....just another thought