I got some good feedback in the Breakups and divorce group about seeing a new man before I am over my ex, and needing girlfriends to help me deal with the loneliness and process stuff.  I told the new guy I am dealing with my loss of my relationship.  Between the ex and the loss of an AA friend, I cried a lot last night and woke w/ puffy eyes.  I agreed to go on a walk with Mr New, like we've been doing every weekend for the last month or so.  It was nice but I didn't put on sunscreen like I needed to.  I tend to see people I know from AA there which is nice, but kinda weird since they see me w/ someone besides the ex.  Oh well.  What I am saying is I am so glad I haven't jumped into anything more than what is going on w/ Mr New and it is still quite alot though it is only conversation and a hug and kiss here and there. I am glad to be part of the Marijuana addiction and recovery group here.  My sponsor was in charge of compiling survey information years ago to get the Detoxing Pamphlet of Marijuana Anonymous out there, and I find myself referring it to people here over and over.  MA is still a small but growing fellowship and the people on this sight don't seem to utilize it (it is not common like AA).  Anyway I told my sponsor about some feedback and she almost cried.  It's like we never know the impact something we do may have on others :)