Ok, wanting to release expectations as I know my serenity depends on letting go of expectations, tomorrow is my b-day and those closest to me, family (neglectful though well meaning) and off and on boyfriend (currently very unstable with mental health issues) have not said a word.  I am sure he forgot, and I don't want to remind him (again).  I'd like to do things for me on this day and not let it depend on others, I have a joy filled day planned in my mind of stuff I want to do, yet I guess I get caught in wanting to "be" there for others if they want to celebrate with me (this isn't usually the case on my b-day).  Oh well!  It's not easy getting another year older.  Happy B-day to me! Thanks to all my DS friends and those who share and offer feedback, it's great to be a part of you all.