He stopped all communication for the longest time yet, after me trying to communicate with him and him raging against it. So I don't attend our mutual AA meetings since so I don't have to see him and go over yet another recociliation/humiliation/breakup/remorse cycle. So now my phone is ringing. It seems he shared with others, why don't they call me, that my feelings are hurt that no one checks up on me. What right does he have to give out my number, or to speak for me? I need closure, not to have people who have no idea what the story is between us to want me to show up somewhere that is not at this time therapeutic for me because of his presense. Why is he telling other people they should call on me and check on me when he won't. It hurts. It feels like a slap in the face. I don't want people reaching out to me on his instigation. What do you think of this? It's like he won't call me but he'll tell other people to call me and lure me back into his world, I don't know. I don't like my # given out, he knows this. I don't like him to share about me, he knows this. I don't need him announcing in public how I "feel" whether it's true or not. I don't want people calling because of what he says. I'm upset and have cried. It is not a good reason to hear from old aquaintances, that my ex who won't speak to me tells them they need to check up on me when he himself won't. Please if someone can understand this or make sense of it please fill me in, thanks.