We get mad, angry or frustrated at our situations and it's because they won't change according to our wrong mind.  But the situations that come into our life are not meant to be changed by force, but by the grace of our change and acceptance of what the situations is.  If we want to see change then we must change our mind; for then we create a spark of change in the situation.  But if it does not change, then it is not meant to change, but it gives us a chance to use our God-given image to help change the world.  So either we change or the situation changes because of us, we use our God-given image to change the world.