WOW....
So I was going through my messages and found a message from a friend that stated that the reason they deleted me from their list was because I was not being a very supportive person since being pregnant. It really hurt because...I understand that I have not been on here much but I don't share a lot of things that was going on in my life. For instance....I did not share that DH and I were separated for a minute due to a lot of fighting and infidelity...(on his part) and now we are trying to work things out.
I don't think that people should judge others because their story...is not YOUR story. You never know what people are really going through and for you to say that I am being non-supportive...I call the bullshit flag!!! The more I write...the more pissed off I get. The fucked up part about all of this....I don't have female friends...never had. I normally either keep to myself or have a few male friends because of petty shit like this.
So because I don't comment on every post that people make....I don't log-in every day to see what people are doing...I'm not a good friend?????? WOW....if that is how this place is going to be...then I might need to sign-off for good.
To me....this is some "facebook friend" shit that adults should not partake in...
Just my feelings!!!
I don't think that people should judge others because their story...is not YOUR story. You never know what people are really going through and for you to say that I am being non-supportive...I call the bullshit flag!!! The more I write...the more pissed off I get. The fucked up part about all of this....I don't have female friends...never had. I normally either keep to myself or have a few male friends because of petty shit like this.
So because I don't comment on every post that people make....I don't log-in every day to see what people are doing...I'm not a good friend?????? WOW....if that is how this place is going to be...then I might need to sign-off for good.
To me....this is some "facebook friend" shit that adults should not partake in...
Just my feelings!!!
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Geeze sounds like that person has no life ... I mean really did they ever stop and think that there\'s more to life than DS and FB lol. Don\'t let it bother you... I hate to say this but it sounds like jealousy has played a part in this person deleting/emailing you.
I agree with Emathews. That is totally ridiculous. Try to brush it off :)
Thanks guys!!! I was just really thrown off by her comment...but I am glad that I do have understanding friends on here.
DS is MY support system and it\'s for ME not anyone else. The bonus is that yes I meet wonderful ladies going through like minded struggles in infertility but I first signed up on here so I could journal my thoughts and feelings out for ME. I can\'t believe someone took a delete to such a high drama step and dumped all that on you. I agree with PolkaDot shake it off girl because you don\'t need to be connected to people like that. I don\'t need journal comments and hugs from you to feel like we are real and true \"supportive\" friends here in DS world. Support comes in many forms. *HUG!! I\'m so sorry that you were privately attacked like that. It was a spinless move on their part.
You should be glad they deleted you, they sound like a head case, what if you had deleted them because of something they\'d done to piss you off, that would be ok I guess?? Its alright for them to do as they please, they\'re not very supportive either!! Glad you and babies are well that\'s the most important thing!!
I\'m sorry this happened - I am in the same boat as you, I haven\'t been as active lately but that\'s because I\'ve been sicker than hell, moved to another state, etc etc. Just let it roll and do what you\'ve got to do to take care of yourself and your little ones.