"32 years is a long time to live with someone" he said
April 4, 2014 after 32 years...it's over
Why doesn't he love me? I have been suspecting something going on with my daughters Rehab Assistant for quite some time.
He of course denies it.
Me, I'm crushed! I begged him to go to counselling, he said no
I begged him to go away, just the two of us for a weekl He said can't afford it
I begged him to go away for just a weekend the two of us to work on our marriage. He said "can't see that happening!"
He's been so angry all the time!
Always getting mad about something!
Moved to another city with our daughter because she is in a behavioural hospital getting help. The last thing he said to me was "you realize you are putting good people out of work!" so you care more about HER wage then our daughter getting better!! I was furious. Bad enough you both acted inappropriately in front of our faces!!
its done and over....had enough. Guess what? When I told him, he's ok with us "being friends"
I am so incredibly hurt!!
Why doesn't he love me? I have been suspecting something going on with my daughters Rehab Assistant for quite some time.
He of course denies it.
Me, I'm crushed! I begged him to go to counselling, he said no
I begged him to go away, just the two of us for a weekl He said can't afford it
I begged him to go away for just a weekend the two of us to work on our marriage. He said "can't see that happening!"
He's been so angry all the time!
Always getting mad about something!
Moved to another city with our daughter because she is in a behavioural hospital getting help. The last thing he said to me was "you realize you are putting good people out of work!" so you care more about HER wage then our daughter getting better!! I was furious. Bad enough you both acted inappropriately in front of our faces!!
its done and over....had enough. Guess what? When I told him, he's ok with us "being friends"
I am so incredibly hurt!!
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I\'m so sorry. 38 years is a long time to be married to someone, how can they just walk away?
I don\'t have any advice just hugs and sympathy.
I pray for your heart to heal, I pray for your heart to lighten, I pray for a new, full & happy life for you.
Hugs & Love, MelodyJane
Thank you Daisy and Melody Jane xoxo
Just sad...but I will be ok. I have a positive outlook.
I need to stay friends for my daughters sake. For some reason he is confused! Why, this has been going on for over a year! What am I supposed to live in a loveless marriage while he tickles this girl and won\'t even hold my hand? What does he think I am a robot?
Hugs mcqn8, I\'m so sorry, I\'ve been thru this...it hurts real bad I know...I knew in my gut my ex was cheating, I stayed and tried....but he wanted out, so I left (no fault divorce/his house) he also wanted to be friends, that just pissed me off more!! I ended up moving 800 miles away and started over!! Take care of yourself and protect yourself legally. My thoughts and Prayers are with you and your daughter now!! Confused men...ppfftt!! Blessings and Strength, cheesecake
So very sorry to hear what you are going through. You are in my prayers. Always remember that when something is taken away from us, God gives us something better to replace it. Romans 8:28 ....please read. I\'ve been through divorce so I understand the pain and heartache. May God give you comfort and peace at this time. God\'s blessings......
So sorry this has happen. So many things I just don\'t understand. Just know that I am here for you.
mcqn8
Thank you everyone for your kind words and prayers! My ex was gone by the time I returned home with Jen my daughter. We are settled and happy now. You know, as difficult as all that was, I am so much happier now!
I had dated a few men and have a few hilarious stories but I did meet a man who is tender, sweet and kind. He has a 9 year old son. I adore him and he loves me and Jen!
My ex was shocked I dated! He was angry and called and told me that he wanted us to work on our marriage now. I said no and told him I had filed for divorce. Imagine! He wants me back! Sometimes it takes losing someone to realize what they had. I am so much happier!!! Thank you everyone for your prayers and words of encouragement and stregnth you have giving me. An ear when I needed it!
Hugs to all
Sandy xoxoxo