I had a customer today and she noticed Bruces wedding ring around my neck. She didnt look much older than me, maybe 52 or 54. She commenting on my ring and new right away I was wearing it because I had lost my husband. She told me she had her husbands ring turned into a heart and wore it around her neck too. I said oh has it been a long time for you.She said 17yrs. I said so does it get better. She said very matter of fact. Oh its been 17yrs. I'm remarried and have a family. So theres hope for us.