Went to lunch with Bruces Mom today. She cried alot. She said that she was surprised at  the overwhelming feelings she was having. She said she has a hard time seeing me. She has decided not to come over on the 9th that its too much for her. She needs to do whats best for her. I feel bad for her she lost both her sons and husband too early to heart attacks. I know she loves me.We have always gotten along well I just bring back memories. I cant change that. She will be able to cope one day.

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I feel bad for her. That is terrible to have lost that many. I am glad that you have her in your life.
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She has had so many losses in her life. She is lucky that you are so understanding even in your grief. Hope you can support each other as that is what you have. My best to you.
Becky
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Yes, she has suffered many losses. I cannot imagine. She is lucky to have you, and your understanding about her not coming on the 9th. We have to be considerate of others feelings, what they feel they can handle and what they cannot. Sending you hugs today, and a big bunch of daffodils.....