My sister in law just sent me a nice letter telling me how she has been thinking about Bruce and thinking about the things she misses most about him.It made me cry,but it also made me smile.She wrote about being grateful for memories of him,such as remembering him dancing at concerts like no one was watching,on his one square foot of dance floor in front of his seat.She remembered him laughing uncontrollably at stupid sitcoms.I remember smiling every night because no matter how many times he watched the same show he laughed as if he was seeing it for the first time.He could be alone in the living room while I was in the kitchen and he would be cracking up watching Sienfeld for the 9thousanth time.Apparantly he has done that since he was little.She remembered his sensitive side ,welling up and getting emotional over things most guys shrug off.These were all the things I loved about Bruce too.I miss these things too.I lost a loving  husband and she lost a loving brother.This is her second brother she lost.It is hard for all of us.We have gotten so close since this has happened and I thank God I have her to go through this with.She thanked me for loving her brother during the good and the bad.And she said she felt comforted knowing that I was here to take care of him the last 10 years.That made me feel good..