I asked him today in an email if we could talk tonight. He replied, "Please dont do this again, Pam. No. I have indicated that I am moving on & you should too." I guess I need not feel guilty about hanging out with the other guy this weekend, eh? It's funnythough....the panic "I've lost him" feeling isnt quite as bad this time....I still feel sad but not like I have in the past 4 months..... I think I need to face reality now that I am getting divorced....:(
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running into new friends arm cuz it is better than being bitter might not be answer
take it one step at a time . enjoy new friend if it helps you cope and forget the ex , however dont set your self up to be hurt again . patience is a virtue
peace
hang in there....
try to enjoy the time with your new friend...try to take things slow and one day at a time...at least you know he is moving on...even though it\'s not what you want....but you know how to prepare for the future....
hugs, love and prayers!
I would agree with the others. Don\'t rush into anything. Go out, enjoy yourself. But do it for the right reason...company, socializing, etc. Don\'t be looking for a replacements, or to be pissing somebody off. It wouldn\'t be fair to you or the other person. Have a good weekend.
As slow and painful as the process is to get where you are at you should be proud. I feel I am getting there as well. You are right it is still sad but it is a different feeling from when it first started. Continue doing what is best for you.