Well things have taken a turn once more. By my choice though this time. We had still been "seeing" eachother but I've decided I cant be happy with a part time relationship. The deciding factor was this past Saturday when he told me that a friend (no threat) had invited him to Christmas dinner. I had invited him at least a month ago so the fact that he was even considering it floored me. I told him last night that I now dont want him for Christmas dinner now because I will be thinking that he's only with us out of obligation or to keep the pace. So he can go with friends instead of family! To hell with him! I would rather have to pretend I'm fine with my girls than to have to pretend with him.....