Things are still going OK with him but I find myself questioning if we are doing the right thing by having this "whirlwind romance". I still very much want to work things out but I dont know if what we're doing now is hampering his personal growth that is so desperately needed right now. That's the whole reason he left.....the whole reason I had to go through the immense hurt that followed... I feel that I am making leaps & bounds with discovering & loving "me"....but he still seems so confused. He actually seems more confused than ever before but maybe that's only because he's finally verbalizing his feelings now.....part of me just wants to walk away now & really be "just friends" but the selfish part of me is so enjoying the attention that I lacked from him for so long...What to do??