I got angry at him again last night. I overheard him talking to our daughter about asking for a Xbox from Santa to keep at his place. I had already planned on getting both my girls a Nintendo Wii for Christmas. I was pissed so I texted him & told him that all these things need to be discussed before being mentioned to Olivia.  Then as I tucked Olivia into bed, I noticed pictures of him in her room. I had purposely left all but one picture of him with him for a reason.I have put our wedding photo in her room for her to keep but there was a baby photo of him(this one not so bad) & another small picture of him in a heart frame. We met online back in 1997 when chatlines were just starting. I was in Canada & he was in South Africa. He mailed that photo to me a couple of months after we had met. I was so in love with him by that time & I carried that picture in the little heart frame around with me everywhere. I even slept with it at night. So that photo has so much sentimental value & I felt he was extremely inconsiderate in sending it with her. Although he's so frigging insensitive he probably gave it no thought at all! Again, I texted him & explained why I would be sending it back to his place. So today I though, most people in this situation eventually try to talk civilly with eachother. It has been at least a month since we've spoken & there are other matters that need to be discussed. So I emailed him & suggested a meeting in public to talk business & about Olivia. Now I'm so nervous about going.....I want to look incredible & I dont want to lose my composure....but I'm scared I'm going to fall apart or get really defensive as I usually do...... Starting to reconsider the whole thing...:(