And we have contact! A very sexy sounding Crisis team member rang at tea time. (Just dawned on me I should have insisted on a home visit) (Why do I never think of these things till after the fact?)
Had a tiring but better day. Went to my Buddhist centre and ran into a friend. It's soooo good to have a cuppa and a chat.....(and a hug) just what I needed.
Thank you Jackie. Your a special lady!!!
Note for Sue K: Hi! Welcome to this site. Make lots of friends and your just like Jackie above. A treasure to behold! (No pressure, no commitment, just a friend when you need one!)
Ps. Asked them both if they'd marry me......both far too smart to say yes! 

All in all a better day all round.
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Glad today was better. That made me smile to read it. Sounds like things are looking up. Isn\'t DS like a magical website? LOL. MUAH!
LOL what would you have done if they had said yes?
Run a mile!!!!