3 days to Beta
So last night I got home from work and was exhausted and feeling major PMS and like I do a day or two before AF arrives. Of course this made me very sad and suddenly, I had this overwhelming feeling that this FET didn't work. I tend to be pretty intuitive and I'm feeling like this cycle just isn't my time. I am really hoping I'm wrong, and that my jacked up hormones are clouding my judgement. This 2ww is just so freaking hard! I took out my HPT last night, opened it and was sooo tempted, but decided to resist and put it back in the cabinet. I am going to prepare for a BFN and just keep remembering that we will do this again, and have a few more tries and that this is not the last FET we'll do. I'm trying to talk myself out of this because I have a hard time believing this is my BFP.
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My fingers are still crossed for you. Try to remember that AF symptoms are very similar to pregnancy symptoms. And progesterone truly messes it all up. Only three days to go, truckloads of baby dust!
Here\'s hoping this is your time!!
My fingers are crossed for you! I hope you are wrong wrong wrong
Hoping your wrong and a BFP is still coming your way! Hugs!
Keeping everything crossed for you! Progesterone really messes with our bodies and can seem like AF and a BFP all at the same time, so do not listen to you body right now, LOL. Only 3 more days, you can do it!
Hang in there! Crossing my fingers for BFP!
I\'m praying for you girl! I hope that your intuition is wrong. I wish IF wasn\'t such a head game. Fingers and toes are crossed for a positive BETA!!
Crossing everything you get your BFP! I absolutely hated the 2ww my house had never been so clean haha :) sending baby dust!
Best Wishes for a BFP!!!! I can completely relate to not expecting to ever see a BFP after so many disappointing negatives. It really CAN happen! I still have to make daily trips to look in the mirror at my growing belly. I definitely had that same mind set and could never picture getting a BFP or ever being pregnant or having a baby in my home. I believe it\'s just our mind trying to help us cope and not truely reality. I\'m so amazed at people who don\'t POAS....you are truely very strong and full of will power!!!
Hang in there - God, I know that is so hard to do. 3 more days it\'s almost over. Stay away from the HPT, it\'ll only make you crazier. I hope with everything I have this is it for you, I\'m so hopeful! xo
First do not use an HPT at night. If your going to do it, do it in the morning since it\'s still early.
Second, I hate that you are feeling this way. We\'ve all felt it at the end of the TWW after a transfert. You analyse everything and feel like it must be bad news. I can only tell you that I\'ve had 4 BFPs in my life and all four were different. I had one that I knew for sure (my first). I knew with my 2nd but symptoms were way different. No symptoms on the 3rd and I just had a feeling with my fourth but no symptoms. I was on progesterone before my BFP only.
Be prepared that it could be a BFN but try to stay positive. It really is still possible. I always feel AF is coming even with a BFP, I get tired and get bad back pain and cramps !
Stay strong !
xoxo
I am really hoping this is it for you! Sorry you are struggling..the 2WW can be so torturous:( thinking of you...xoxo
OMG girl I am so there!! I still have a week left, but I\'m totally feeling what you are! I woke up on Sunday morning with this gut feeling that it didn\'t work. I couldn\'t explain it, and had no evidence either way, I just felt it. I hope we\'re both wrong!! In the last few days, I\'ve had symptoms that could be pregnancy, could be PMS and could be nothing! It\'s so nerve wracking! Since I\'ve never been pregnant, I have no idea what it would feel like, and my mind is taking full advantage by playing endless tricks on me! Hang in there girl, and fingers crossed it\'s a BFP!! (And if you want to POAS, go ahead and do it. Just do it in the morning, and remember that a negative doesn\'t necessarily mean negative. I\'ll probably do it a day or 2 before my beta, just because I think waiting for that phone call will be the worst thing ever if I don\'t have at least an idea about it before I go in.) Good luck either way and MUCHO BABY DUST to you!!