2nd Massive Temptation (worse than the 1st)

My first "victory" I'll call it.
 
There were tons of risk factors:  Alone, in a swanky place, an attractive "target" who clearly reciprocated, wife not talking to me, free alcohol, low sleep/late nights.
Pattern:
-  Noticed the OW, she noticed me
-  Ignored for a while
-  Thought it was "all clear" when she and I compared notes that we were married with kids.  Thought, "oh, this can just be a friendly/professional association"
-  Later that night, comparing travel notes and noticing many shared experiences/values
-  She admits she's separated and divorcing (uh oh)
-  Spent next 4 hours talking (is it SERIOUSLY 1 a.m.??!)
-  Went swimming, then hot tub.
-  Was practicing restraint (no touching, no talk of feelings)
 
This set me up for a full blown crisis and I knew it.  Knew the next night would be irresistible. 
-  Established a support structure (SAA buddies, Online buddies, real-live buddy at the conference)
-  Spent the morning making a plan to avoid the evening showdown
-  Followed the plan, despite numerous temptations to break off
-  Went to bed before most of the "crowd."  Alone!  Victory!
 
Felt awful about it, like I'm missing a delicious treat.