update
Things still aren't great with soon to be x and I. We went and did the paperwork for the divorce.. I guess its for the best anyways.. A lot has happened in the past week, I got an at home job bad part is its 4pm till 1am, my other job is 8-2 so ill basically be working all the time.. but it has to be done with x leaving us.... today was a rough day as some of u know i had pregnancy brain and the last week of my pregnancy donated all my clothes thinking id never fit in that all i have left is maternity stuff... so today soon to be x and i went to the goodwill to find me some stuff for work next week well i try stuff on and doesn't the jerk have the nerve to say so much for a size 3 (I had lost 100lbs b4 getting pregnant and got down to a size 3)... I broke down in tears because its been hard to work out let alone even sleep without help.. I have so much going on right now.. 2 jobs, college, 7 week old, process of moving, at most 2 hrs of sleep a day if I'm lucky and the divorce..its enough to make someone lose their mind.. On a better note I am having Angelicas professional pics done tomorrow, I am so excited I already packed her outfits and props for it... I really hope things start looking up.
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Don\'t worry about the weight loss or working out. It\'s only the celebrities who have a staff of nannies and babysitters that have time and energy to go to the gym and workout. It\'s so unrealistic for the average mom. Hang in there.
I can\'t believe he said something about your weight. He sure wasn\'t a keeper. You just had the baby so don\'t worry about your weight, you have enough on your plate for now.
enjoy the photo session.
What a jerk! I\'m sorry he said such a ridiculous comment, especially knowing it\'s a sore spot for you. You\'re doing great. Enjoy tomorrow and focus on your precious little miracle. Thinking of you hun.
Wow, as much as the divorce sucks, I think you are going to be better off without him! Who says something like that to a women who just had a baby! Of course you wont be in size 3, 7 weeks after giving birth, jerk!
I am sorry you have to work so much to make ends meet. BUT at least that second job is working from home, so you can see and spend some time with A in the evenings and be there when she needs something and not have to have a baby sitter every night! Hang in there!