Still GF today, I decided to take a day off from work tomorrow, just to spend some quality time with my husband since he works at night and I work days we don't really spend time with each other and he happens to be on vacation this week, but anyhow I came home from work today, and all hell broke loose in the house with my stepson, so of course a fight broke out. I sometimes feel that my stepson wants to ruin my marriage, he is constantly touching my stuff and he is not mentally maturing, and does alot of stupid things and it really gets me mad. I came upstairs to write to all my friends here at DS, I really don't know what to do anymore. When things like this would happen the first thing I would do was run to the casino well tonight I didn't, I guess that is positive. Well now I guess I will just hang up in my room, since my Husband is kind of mad at me, he always blames me for the fights around here with his son anyway, I guess that is normal since it is his kid, but I think he forgets who is raising him me, his biological Mother doesn't even see him or even pay child support, I help out around this house just as much as my Husband does, and all I get is no respect. I do not know what do except hope for a better tomorrow and a GF day tomorrow. Take Care Everyone and have a GF day tomorrow.

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I\'m glad you stayed strong and didn\'t go to the casino. It would have made matters worse. I don;t have any suggestion on how to handle your sititution. I\'m sorry it is such a hassle. Try to hang in there. You\'re a strong person. P.S. I was lucky that God decided to give me a blessing. It was a stupid thing to do. I don\'t advise anyone to try it. Peace and Love. Patty
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I hope you have a better day tomrrow. I am so glad you didn\'t go gamlbing. I know when there is personal problems at home I would run and go gambling. We just add more problems when we choice to go. You are a strong person and are beating this addiction. Take care. Hugs Nick
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I hope you have a better day tomrrow. I am so glad you didn\'t go gamlbing. I know when there is personal problems at home I would run and go gambling. We just add more problems when we choice to go. You are a strong person and are beating this addiction. Take care. Hugs Nick
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well done chick! that\'s the worst thing isn\'t it? wanting to vent your anger and gambling USED to be the release? glad you didn\'t go though - hope tomorrow is a better day for ya!
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It is hard being a stepmom - I have been there. But I am glad you did not gamble -- nothing is worth it, that is what I have decided - because it does not solve the problem. hugs