ok, so it has been almost a week now with no contact.
The longer it goes on, the angrier I get about some (most) of what was said to me.
I still can't believe that I seem to be the only one sensing anything bad...everyone else was saying all was well.
Well I pray his parents were full witness to that accidental conversation I had with him last Sunday, and could tell from his side of the conversation how skewed things are.
I can't honestly believe they think everything is fine. And him not letting me talk to them - they need to be put on high alert for the crap I have witnessed the past couple of months.
He went from total sweetheart to cold hearted selfish bastard!!!!!!!
The longer it goes on, the angrier I get about some (most) of what was said to me.
I still can't believe that I seem to be the only one sensing anything bad...everyone else was saying all was well.
Well I pray his parents were full witness to that accidental conversation I had with him last Sunday, and could tell from his side of the conversation how skewed things are.
I can't honestly believe they think everything is fine. And him not letting me talk to them - they need to be put on high alert for the crap I have witnessed the past couple of months.
He went from total sweetheart to cold hearted selfish bastard!!!!!!!
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Hi Stableone, I am in a relationship with a man who is bi-polar, 5 months almost now. Wow is this so very hard. I love this man, and am there 100%, but I am having a very hard time. I understand where you are coming from. Confused most of the time lately. Please can we talk? A new friend who can shed some light would be great.
I would be glad to. Be sure and check out my post/responses from Saturday Feb 3rd as well. I am struggling now to find a way to contact his parents w/o actually \"talking\" to them. I want them to read every single journal entry I gave made here, as well as the questions I have asked and the responses I have received. It seems when the times are \"right\" he flips into his calm \"i am in control, all is good\",but me,holy hell breaks loose. My theory is the more they care, the more they show their \"true\" state. Lucky us! Tell me what ha been going on...
Stableone, this guy has put you through so much crap for 8 months. If you aren\'t careful, it could easily turn into 8 years. Then you would be really angry when it ends. Put the past behind you, including his parents. He is their problem now. You deserve better. He isn\'t yours to fix even if you could fix him. It scares me to see how you keep being drawn back in. Just decide to move on. Remember that the best revenge is living well. Right now, if you avoid him, it is only going to take you four months to recover-- at the most. If you drag it out, you could throw your whole life away. Please, think about taking flight.
Freebird