Me and my boyfriend have been fighting all weekend. I've been offered a modelling job and he is NOT HAPPY about it. He keeps saying its unsafe and I shouldn't go. I've told him he sounds agressive and controlling and I won't put up with being told what to do.
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do the modelling it sounds a great oppurtunity, i hope you do it, your boyfreind is trying to stop you from doing it! you deserve to be happy!
Good for you honey xx When somebody loves us they think that they own us, its a mistake that they make over and over again. He is frightened because he doesnt understand and this causes him to react in a negative way. Instead of rowing try and help him see that you are going to be safe. Invite him to a shoot when the photographer captures your beauty. He is probably frightened that he might lose you, reassure him and his mind might settle. If not you have to decide whether to put your life on hold for someone else, personally, I wouldnt xx
turns out I\'m not doing the modelling any way because my boyfriend was right, the photographer is a DICK!!! he sent me the rudest message ever about how I had bad comunication skills, snooty or what?
Dear Sleepy,
You are blessed with natural good looks, why not make money while you can? This should give you some insight into the mind of the boyfriend though. Did he even say why it was unsafe? Sorry the photographer turned out to be a dickhead, but I am sure you will get more offers. Eric
Well if it is perfectly safe, then your BF has a power issue. Don\'t let him forbid you to do this ; it sounds like a good chance to jump start a nice career opportunity. Good luck.