Hey AllSitting here giving out hugs and having pain in my legs 8 and arms 6. I took a ultram and its not working yet. My cat is on the desk again so no cleaning yet. I sit here wishing I was a cat. Mine has it so easy all they have to do is eat and sleep and get loving from me. No worries or problems. But I guess God trust me as a person instead of a cat. Rhonda paid us for rent and food so that will go to construction fund for the house unless we need it somewhere else. My son just inform me that he doesn't want a school ring. I thought it would be nice but he's thinking of the money. I guess its ok. He's thinking sensible and I'm thinking something he have the rest of his life. LOL he rather have a playstation 3 and I don't blame him. Maybe we can get it for him for his graduation present. Dad hasn't called and I'm thinking less and less of him so I guess thats good. I will have to send them a graduation invitation because he is Joey's grandfather. I wish my step father was here to see him graduate.My step father died of cancer in 2004 and he was good to my mom. I miss him during football season because we watch games together. I guess in a way I'm still watching them with him he's just looking down on me to watch. After he died I had a dream going into my mom's house and he sat on the couch and said hey to me. I went to sit beside him and he ask me to take care of my mom. Well it seem so real. I'm trying to take care of her but granny is bringing her down. My granny is in assitant living and expects mom to be there all the time. She doesn't want to do anything for herself. Mom worries about her and she's always using mom with telling her she can't do this or that. If she gets down where she cant do for herself she will have to go to a nursing home. She has alot of assets so she will lose them to medicare unless mom does something with them. That sucks the governement has to many rules. Well ralph felt better today and went hunting. Alex laid off because I told him I don't feel good. Rhonda is cleaning downstairs in there space and alex is suppose to be helping. Joey is still sick and resting. Anthony has a bad headache so its sick city around here. Hope you all are ok and hope to talk soon. Thanks for all the comments. Love yaRobin
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iam sorry your in pain, i pray god takes the pain away, and iam praying for your family, thst the sickness ends, and your mom and god god gives her strength.
I\'m so sorry that you are in so much pain, hope that you will get some relief soon.
SORRY TO HEAR YOUR STILL IN PAIN,DID YOU GO SEE THE DOC FOR IT,HOPE THE PAIN GOES AWAY SOON,WISHING YOU A PAINFREE NIGHT DEAR X0X0X0X
Your not starting out the new year in a blaze of glory. You seem to be surrounded by sickness, that\'s the pits. Hope your meds work on the pain!! Your granny may have to go to a nursing home, sometimes it for the best for everyone concerned, especially your mum. It\'s a tough decision but there comes a time that her needs can\'t be met at home and the caregiver ( your mum)just has no more to give. Be well, Debbie
hope the pain goes soon and that the house fund gets huge, take care.........Fred
I hope you all get to feeling better very soon.
I feel for your Mom, like me she is between adult children who love her and a mother who needs her...sometimes it\'s a tough call.
it sounds like you have a really full plate right now.your grandma is going to need to get outside help instead of depending on your mom.when I ended up in the state hospital with a break down,they said alot of it was my mother being so dependant on me.and that I would not believe how many caregivers end up being truly ill cause of it.I hope everything starts to look up for you.you are in my prayers.lol xoxo deb
Yes... I\'m glad your not a cat, :) Sounds like your family is so very lucky to have you. How aware you are of them all. I do hope you feel better soon.
Yep I lost my class ring when I was 20....Sound like your step father did come to see you, thats cool I\'ve been visited in dreams by several relatives its always comforting to me. Yes I totally agree with you on all the rules the government has set up, they seem counter productive dont they? Seesh send Rhonda on over here:) xx bry xx
Im sorry your in pain. Iknow I just took another Diloded because of the pain in my arms. I so need to get some stuff done around the house so DH doesn\'t feel like I am useless. Even though he is on duty today. Drives me nuts when he gets in these up and down moods. Hang in there and I hope your pain goes away soon
Wow, you have a LOT on your plate these days. Family can be REALLY rough, trust me, I know. Maybe it\'s good you aren\'t thinking of your father as much-one less thing to carry around in your head. I do hope your pain starts to ease.
I\'m sorry that you are in so mych pain, I hope the pain lessens soon!
Does your Mom still live in her own house and own it? I live in WI and I\'m not sure about every state and if you have to contend with brothers and sisters but what we did with my Mom was to buy her house from her. Then to make it legal she paid $1 a year to live in it, turned around and gave us the money back as a gift(there were 7 of us) and it is a tremendous tax break for her. I know a lot of people in WI doing it now because that way at least the largest asset can\'t be counted. But I also believe there was a time frame it had to be done in and I don\'t remember what it was.
I hope you are feeling some better. I often have the same thoughts you have to your cats about my pets (guinea pigs and dogs).