Hey AllIts been a few days since I wrote. The cold weather makes my legs hurt and meds or not helping unless I take 1000mg of ibprofen and I either kill my liver and kidneys or both. Nothing much happening. Vols lost football which sucks. Cowboys beat packers so I'm happy. Dad hasn't call me and I worry alot about what else I can do but then I want to forget and see how he does without us coming for Christmas. He really pissed me off calling mom and grumbling that I'm mad at him when he did it. But I'm ok I guess. Hubby never did like him treating me that way either.Well thats it. Its boring here. LoveRobin
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YES THAT VOLS GAME WAS SICKNIG! GLAD THE SEASON IS OVER.....YOU KNOW DEAR WEARE ALL SUFFERING FROM THE PRESSURES OF THE HOLIDAYS, WE NEED TO BE NICER TO OURSELFS AND TELL EVERYONE ELSE AROUND US THAT WE LOVE THEM BUT WE NEED TO BE AT PEACE DURING THE HOLIDAYS, AS WE ARE SICK AND DONT ANY PETTY CRAP RIGHT NOW.....SOUNDS GOOD DOESNT IT? LOL NOW IF i CAN JUST SAY IT..... XXX BRY HAVE A GOOD ONE DEAR...
You be ok. Dad should have respected you and your family. He made his choice. Hugggggggsssssss!
Everyone is so on edge with the Holidays and all.
We\'re having a tremendous big rain and wind storm
here for the past 2 days. My legs,feet, and arms
all ache from the cold. Got to go out shopping,
pay bills,etc. Sorry you and your Dad are on the
outs, hope you\'re back talking before Xmas.
Love, Shell xoxoxo
Hi, Don\'t get me strted about my darn legs. I was up late with them last night. Don\'t feel guilty about Dad. We can only do what we can do. Tell him you love him I hope he chills out. hugs, Keleee :)
I do hope your holidays go well. Do whatever makes you less stressed and happy. I find if I don\'t want to go to someone\'s home for Christmas I will visit before that day or if they live far away I call. But better than adding more stress to all that is going on, and not feeling well. Take care. Hope you feel better soon. Jan
Just wanted to let you know I am praying for you through the holidays. I hate that it is a stressful time for your family. I\'m also sorry you are hurting so much. God bless you! Love and prayers to you and your family, Gayla
parents make their own choices and then like they tell us they have made their beds they can sleep in it. my dad made a terribles choice where i was involved about 8 years ago and things have not been the same. i do hope that you have a happy holiday. love and hugs
Hang in there kid better days are ahead. Maggie
My fathere is gone, passed away, in 2000 and I would give anything for him to just have 5 minutes with him and tell him that I love him again. I didn\'t do it often enough when he was alive. He wasn\'t the easiest person to get along with and often we had our arguments but if I could just have him back for a little while, I would give up everything I have. My mother is in a nursing home because she has Alzheimer\'s and hasn\'t known any of us kids since around 2001. She doesn\'t even know who she is. She can\'t put a sentence together. I can\'t have her back so she could understand and know what it means when I tell her I love her. They may not be the best, they may not show you affection but I know the damage it can do to your health to be so angry with anyone for a long period of time. In the end, it doesn\'t matter who makes the first move and says I\'m sorry first, just somebody say it, even if you don\'t know what you should be sorry about. I would like to tell both of my parents, I am sorry for everything they ever thought I did wrong. I would tell them it in a heartbeat if I could just have them back. This is my opinion only.
~~Faye~~
My father has given all of us kids problems all of our life too. He does not have the alcohol problems. But he sucked as a father. My counsler told me to stop letting him hurt me. He would ruin Christmas every year for my sister and I. Making demands on us when he was never around when we were young. I just told him if he can\'t stop making these demands, then not to come around us at Christmas. He didn\'t for about 2 years. He was mad. But now we talk like adults to each other, and he understands my feelings. He even started telling me he loves me. I never heard him say that until I was 45. Good luck