A big problem I have is that I have always been home working as a secretary in our landscape design business. After Jim's death the company had to be dissolved. Leaves me at home with alot of time, kids are grown up, I really never worked outside the home other than a few part time jobs when the kids were small. I have put myself totally in our business. I know further down the road I might need to get out there but at 53 with no experience is going to be pretty hard. I guess my goal will be to try to get out more with people. I have great friends whom most of are older than myself. We never really got together with too many couples as Jim worked alot of hours and being married young all our friends went in their own direction. Will really try to see whats beyond the fence. Thanks everyone