Frustrated

I'm feeling really frustrated because even though I'm having symptoms my family doctor and my endocrinologist don't think that my calcium levels are high enough to warrant seeing her. In fact my endocrinologist's receptionist said that my care was referred back to my family doctor! That it would be up to my family doctor to refer me back to the endocrinologist! My PTH is high and my calcium levels have fluctuated from high normal, normal and high. I'm being tested every three months now instead of every six months. I'm in a holding pattern while we wait to see what happens with my levels! Meanwhile, I feel more and more tired, don't rest well, have back pain, get muscle cramps, have headaches, and have muscle twitching as well as other symptoms! Is it going to take more kidney stones before I'm referred back to my endocrinologist?