Ouch...
Literally sitting on the couch miscarrying my first and only BFP and a friend just posted her last cliche chalkboard update holding her baby with the name, date & weight. At least some people get their dream. I'll just go back to my tissues, redbox, severe bleeding and cramps thanks. And I don't think I'll go to my coworkers baby shower tomorrow.
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I am so sorry you are going through this. I miscarried my first and only BFP in January and the sadness I felt was almost unbearable. Give yourself time to grieve. I don\'t think there was anyway I could\'ve attended a baby shower. It will take time, but it will get better. Hang in there. Hugs sent your way!
Just take care of yourself. The baby shower may be too much to handle right now. Eat a bowl of ice cream, or some chocolate, or wrap yourself up in your favorite blanket and watch a movie. You should nurture yourself.
I\'m so sorry :( I wish I had more words to comfort you. Please know that I am here if you need anything.
Thanks guys! I appreciate your kind words. Feeling better today, well more comfortable at least. I am glad I only worked a half day yesterday so this process could take place and still sleep last night. The heavy, heavy bleeding slowed enough that I felt comfortable laying down (sorry, TMI). Hubby came home (out of town for work) and we cried together for a bit and then he rubbed my crampy back until I fell asleep.
So sorry Orriginal that you are going through all of this. I hope that your healing can begin soon so you can go after your dream. Take care of yourself this weekend, and definitely no baby shower during an MC!
Oh, I am so so sorry to hear this! Take care of yourself! This is a tragic thing to endure, and you and DH need to go through it together. The outside world can either be understanding, or just rot. Nothing else is important right now. Sending you hugs and healing.