Update

My wife just got a text message from the guys brother that he passed away due to his injuries from the car crash. Drs had released him as the cat scans looked fine.  He was at home entertaining guests.  He withheld from my wife that he was paralyzed from the waist down.   His uncle messaged my wife this info.  He messaged my wife yesterday that he was scared...  That night he had had a dream of seeing my wife crying and also seeing a coffin.  The dream did not reveal who was in it...   He had been running a fever and my wife pleaded with him to go to the Dr.  He went but was released a day later.  Well, yesterday he coughed up blood.  He was ushed to the hospital after he asked to go to his bank and xfer his fortune to his mother.  The Dr said his chances were slim.  My wife's country is not like Drs here in the US where they withold the truth to suck more money out of you.  They opened him up and apparently the operation to stop the bleeding in the intestines did not go well. We have no other details right now.  My wife is numb. He mentioned to my wife that he had one of his artist friends take my wife's scanned paintings she had sent to him and had them blown up.  They were on the wall of his room when he was at home recently.  My wife had done a sketch of him which he was also in the process of getting enlarged.   This guy found that he could love again thru chatting with my wife.  This was a blessing for him.  He is a famous song composer in my wife's country and was in the midst of writing a song of how he had found love again.  But he was unable to finish it.  If his music folks finish this and it gets on youtube, I will post the link. Jay

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jay, this does not add up. you both are adults and intelligent. This just does not add up. i am having a hard time believing this story. please forgive me. i am not being ugly. but this is just too weird. No one could do this and not feel extremely guilty for causing someone to die. and his mom....gosh. something is not right here. let me know..
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magnolianancy, I totally agree..
???????????????????? Very strange indeed, sorry jay, you know
your loved but....hard to believe here.
You sent me a message to read this and I had no idea where it started
as I havent been on here much so, Im pretty lost on this one.
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Thats such a tragedy. After all that he went through he died anyway.
I do feel sorry for your wife now, because I see that she knows what she has done. And its tearing her up inside.
Its just so awful that he had to die.