No clue.. I have no clue!
Last night I was an utter mess - I drank WAYYYYYY too much and told bf how I felt about his brother. He feels because they have been through so much he owes it to him to help him out. I just looked like a drunken fool. I was a mess in tears tell him I can't be a mother to his little brother (who is 21 in July) - Honestly I don't even want to talk to him right now (the brother that is)....
I love my bf more than anything! I'd do absolutely anything for him and I can't wait untill our escape in June/July, we're going to Bali and we can have some "us" time =) He asked me last night if I want to go back home to my parents and if I really want to be with him. How I feel is a mixed of scared because of my Endo issues and plain out angry because his brother is so USELESS.... ALL our arguements are over his brother. Come the end of the month - he owes my bf $1000....he can't pull his weight - I garuantee you when I leave this room when he leaves for work the dishes wont be done, he ironing board, iron and clothes horse from three days ago will still be out in the loungeroom.
I know I need to address my bf's brother and not my bf and put unnecessary strain on him and our relationship. Come this Sunday I will address it - Im not going to do this to my relationship...I can see a future with my bf - His brother needs to shape up or get out and im not willing to give him anymore time. He's had long enough!!!

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warmheart
warmheart

I think you said it pretty clear and I kinda agree for sure. I will tell you that many guys....21 is not enough time. I see men acting like fools well into there 60s so maybe this will never stop with him...on the other hand, I\'m not much like the kid I was at 21 either. good luck
taters90
taters90

thanks =)