i still am heartbroken. i'm so messed up. i watch my friends move on and fall in love and be happy. i want to be happy for them. but i can't. in my mind i know i'm so screwed up i'll never find anyone to be happy with. i compare everyone to CJ. "CJ wouldn't say that" "CJ wouldn't act that way" "CJ wouldn't wear that" i do it all the time. it's crazy and unfair to others. but who is it really unfair to? i cry again too often. i know i'll never be happy. i want someone... who is CJ's replica.. it will never happen. miracles never worked for me. i don't get a happy ending do i? my happy ending left me and i still believe i was meant to die in that accident. it was mistake for me to live. CJ was my other half and now without him i am so alone. i hate everything. i wish i could one day meet someone that i didn't wish was CJ instead. everyone is no good becus they are not CJ. and that will always be the case.... i have no hope.
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i have been thinking about u alot lately and just signedd on for the first time in awhile and of course..u journaled..it was meant to be. I have been struggling a lot lately also...I wish i could just have that happy ending, be the girl who doesnt have a dead boyfriend, not need the said to be 5 yrs until ur back to normal functioning after a death, everything! it all seems just so fcked up and unfair BUT i gotta BELIEVE that everything happens for a reason and I may never know that reason until I am with my loved one again. hold strong and keep fighting. [believe] in yourself and all that you can be. know that there is something inside you that is greater than any obstacle....
love you and I\'m here for you. Grethe
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