I was going through My message Box tonight, Cleaning House, and Im a Bit Sad tonight..
I went to Hug some who had messaged me or to read there Journal and I found SOME Thankfully Not All, had Ever so Quietly Removed me From there Friends List.
I have not removed Any Friends from my Friends List, I don't see a need to, I don't know why some others would find a need to remove me..and what takes the cake to do it behind the sceans so quietly... it's Like they never cared for me in the first place so why care now just wash me into the blue sea.
I guess there will always be atleast "Some" friends that will stick by my side forever with no Strings attached, I sure hope so atleast. Gee it's really frusterating to know there are people that do this and don't give it a 2nd thought.
Michael
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Oh Im So Happy Now, One Of My old Friends is Back, she just had some technical Problems, I guess that could of been what happened to some others, but I doubt it. but I will thank God for the Return of this Special Friend and it\'s Nice to hear there was nothing about me that caused it..
Well, i have more work to do here on DS, still going through things, but it;s 12AM and teresa went to bed and guess I should also, guess tomarrow is another day,..and things will keep,.. Nite all
People remove friends because they feel they can not help the person. Or they have to many friends on their list to keep up with all of them. It may not be any thing you said or did. But sometimes it gets overwhelming checking on a whole lot of people. Don\'t let it get you down.
I\'m so glad you can put a possitive spin on this, It really gets to me to, when I find freinds missing from my list, I get depressed by it but After inquireing usually find its nothing personal . I never have time to write to all the people I would wish to, and occasionaly resort to mass mailing, I dont know you as well as I would like to, but Ive also never heard anything or seen anything about you that isnt possitive and good, so if those people delete you then it is they\'re loss not yours, stay strong my freind, What you lose on the roundabout ect, I gotta lot of respect an love for you, OK :) I also agree with EileenR, I sometimes think about making my freinds list smaller, But which one would I delete??? Every body here needs love an acceptance, so I cant do it... But I also feel giult for not being able to cover them all, Catch 22 Ha! Chin up fella Life goes on!
Thanks both of you! It seems to take alot of time to get to everything My Emails and DS, and lately I have been working alot,so I guess I might not of gotten to them in time, yes, it makes sense that it\'s tuff sometimes but How people just do it without even saying anything, that\'s what gets me. well, Im awake and Up now so I better get cooking,. have to work of course tonight, ugg.. and I run a Kay Jewlers tomarrow morning.
I just read about why one axed me, could not keep up with Journal entries,. well I have to confess I have not kept up with everyones entries also, there has just been No way to, but lately I scan to see how they are feeling and move in if they are feeling less then Smiley,. I hope to get more time to get to Everybody but so far they hang in there and stay in my corner, I like that, they know they can count on me if they need me and Im only a Hug or a Message away,.. I have one friend that messeges all her friends to read her journal, I think that\'s neat, and I do run right over there when I get the message. I hope to get more time for the computer but that might not happen till march but Im trying different things to make it more even..
Hi Michael - I feel as you do - would never want to hurt anyones feelings.