New job
I started working with a cleaning company. Everything was going good till I met one of my co-workers. Now this is going to sound stupid and I know it is but it is a struggle for me. The girl I work with reminds me a lot of the OW, my guy cheated on me with. This girl is from the same native tribe and same part of Montana, sounds like the OW and sort of looks like the OW. I am finding it hard not to feel a bias. I have expressed my feelings to my guy but as a lot of you already know the cheaters rarely comprehend the trauma we go through. I have a hard time taking orders from her. I don't let it affect my work but internally I am SCREAMING. So wish I was to that point where I felt safe to move on. But things still feel so fresh. I am hoping after my one yr the stress I still feel will deplete a little. Feel bad that I feel this way towards someone who has no idea. Rrraaaarrrrrrrr............ :)
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OMG ... I had the exact same thing happen to me. The girl even had a similar sounding name.
Good news is she\'s one of my closest work friends now and I eventually shared why I was resistant to her in the beginning. Maybe its the universe\'s way of giving us something positive to put in place of the negative we\'ve been carrying around. I respect and admire my friend and see the OW as a sad imitation. She\'s Spam. :)