I’m some what in a good mood today. I went out after work last night to this place I always go to. I seen this guy there a very nice man & every time I go there and he is there we always talk. Well, I said to him that I was going to go to another place that is closer to my house so I could walk home so I would not get pulled over; I also mentioned that my son was not going to be home until Sunday. So he asked me what this other place was like and where it was, of course I told him and he said that he would like to go there for a bit. So he followed me home and we walked to stub. We talked a lot I mean a lot, he told me some thing that have been going on in his life that he tells know one, I also told him about my HIV. Guess what he did? Nothing he did not run he kissed me and told me I had soft lips. I tell you I have not had someone tell me that in a really long time. It sure was nice.I did not want him to drive home after he had been drinking and neither did he. I said to him that he could stay over and we could cuddle and hold each other until we sleep, (he has not had this either in years) he loved that Idea. This part in bed scared the hell out of me (because since I have had HIV I had not been in bed with a man) but I was so proud of myself. We did do a lot of kissing and I did the touching. I told him I did not know what was right anymore and what all I could do. So I told him I would find out and if he wanted to see me again maybe we could do more. He said he would love to see me more. Before he left we changed phone numbers. All I can do now is see what happens.This was a long story short.  So I have a Question? I am not been educated in the bed since I have had HIV. I know that I need to use condoms but what can I do and can not do now? Please can someone help me!!!!