There is so much going on right now, and Im doing well with it all.
About my daughters wedding, and the time I need off for that went well with my boss, I was in shock.
Then I told her that the days had changed for when I go to Vegas, she was happy with that, because that is what she wanted because there was something going on for both of the other manager in my office.
Plus it will then be about 8 hundred less for me and I will only need 3 or 4 days of PTO.
Then I said to my boss there is one thing, I need the whole weekend that I move to be on call, now she had no problem with that, and she told me that if I had to go in and work she will give me another day off, another shocker.
Oh ya, the place I am moving to told me yesterday that I was accepted to move back, and then I was off and gave my notice here. I now have 15 boxes to pack.
Today, I went and reserved a truck for my move, went to the post office for address change, and made a big list of all the people I need to call for changing service over and address. I forgot what a big pain moving is.
I still need to find more people to help me move, any takers.
About my HIV, I think this is good new. As a lot of you had read in my previous journals, I had been trying to get the person I had believed gave me this disease tested and to go and get the results.
Well, as I said he got tested about a month ago and I was still trying to take him back for the results, because I need to know, even thou I know I got this from him, I guess its a reassurance.
Im not sure in other state but in Minnesota the Health Department gets involved and calls you then meets with you about everyone you slept with ect.
The man that is assigned to my case has been trying to get a hold of this man, I final gave him his phone number.
So guess you called me that man that gave this to me. I told him if you dont want to go with me and get your results then please call this man I told him that he will know the results of your test. We talked for about an hour.
So what do I do this morning? I called the case worker and told him that I know this person will be home all day because he took off work, so try and call. Guess who called me back about 30 min later? You got. He told me that he was going to meet with the case worker next Tuesday. This person is accepting that he has HIV, even thou the man did not tell him yet, he know he has it. I just dont believe that he will meet with him.
Now, I think I can move on because He knows and he knows he did this to me, if that makes any sense.
About my youngest son, well he got suspended for the, I think it is the 3rd or 4th time this year, and this time it will cost me $100.00, and yes the court will be involved. Not to sure what this judge is going to do with him.
Lets see he will be going to court for Theft, he stole one of his teacher calculator, when I was in the hospital back in October, he needed one to do his work and I was unavailable to by him one at that time. What a jerk.
Then after he found out I had HIV he started smoking pot, well that is number to in court Position of paraphernalia.
Now this is number three, Criminal damage to property, he broke the door or door handle of one of his glass room, because the teacher locked the door so he could not leave the class room.
As the story goes my son was in a bad mood and wanted to go to the office to cool down, and the teacher told him no or she would put him down for truancy. Well he got even a little more upset she lock the door, and boob the hulk came out.
So, I told him he needs to straighten up or I will not be taken him to Vegas one more thing and he will be going to his dads instead.
The police officer and the principal both laughed at what happen, plus it was the school officer b-day that day, and you took her cake to the car for her, thats right my son, and she drove him home in the cop car.
My son has ADHD plus has impulsivity he does not think before he does anything.
Please dont get me wrong he is a great kid, it is just he hates school.
One last thing he is going to counseling , and will be for a long time, I just pray the judge dont take him away from me, He is my baby and I liv for him and all my kids, but he is a mommys boy.
Enough of me talking now, but this is what I have been going thou the last 2 days.
I hope everyone is having a great day, I know I am, time to take my son to his dads.
Love Mary
About my daughters wedding, and the time I need off for that went well with my boss, I was in shock.
Then I told her that the days had changed for when I go to Vegas, she was happy with that, because that is what she wanted because there was something going on for both of the other manager in my office.
Plus it will then be about 8 hundred less for me and I will only need 3 or 4 days of PTO.
Then I said to my boss there is one thing, I need the whole weekend that I move to be on call, now she had no problem with that, and she told me that if I had to go in and work she will give me another day off, another shocker.
Oh ya, the place I am moving to told me yesterday that I was accepted to move back, and then I was off and gave my notice here. I now have 15 boxes to pack.
Today, I went and reserved a truck for my move, went to the post office for address change, and made a big list of all the people I need to call for changing service over and address. I forgot what a big pain moving is.
I still need to find more people to help me move, any takers.
About my HIV, I think this is good new. As a lot of you had read in my previous journals, I had been trying to get the person I had believed gave me this disease tested and to go and get the results.
Well, as I said he got tested about a month ago and I was still trying to take him back for the results, because I need to know, even thou I know I got this from him, I guess its a reassurance.
Im not sure in other state but in Minnesota the Health Department gets involved and calls you then meets with you about everyone you slept with ect.
The man that is assigned to my case has been trying to get a hold of this man, I final gave him his phone number.
So guess you called me that man that gave this to me. I told him if you dont want to go with me and get your results then please call this man I told him that he will know the results of your test. We talked for about an hour.
So what do I do this morning? I called the case worker and told him that I know this person will be home all day because he took off work, so try and call. Guess who called me back about 30 min later? You got. He told me that he was going to meet with the case worker next Tuesday. This person is accepting that he has HIV, even thou the man did not tell him yet, he know he has it. I just dont believe that he will meet with him.
Now, I think I can move on because He knows and he knows he did this to me, if that makes any sense.
About my youngest son, well he got suspended for the, I think it is the 3rd or 4th time this year, and this time it will cost me $100.00, and yes the court will be involved. Not to sure what this judge is going to do with him.
Lets see he will be going to court for Theft, he stole one of his teacher calculator, when I was in the hospital back in October, he needed one to do his work and I was unavailable to by him one at that time. What a jerk.
Then after he found out I had HIV he started smoking pot, well that is number to in court Position of paraphernalia.
Now this is number three, Criminal damage to property, he broke the door or door handle of one of his glass room, because the teacher locked the door so he could not leave the class room.
As the story goes my son was in a bad mood and wanted to go to the office to cool down, and the teacher told him no or she would put him down for truancy. Well he got even a little more upset she lock the door, and boob the hulk came out.
So, I told him he needs to straighten up or I will not be taken him to Vegas one more thing and he will be going to his dads instead.
The police officer and the principal both laughed at what happen, plus it was the school officer b-day that day, and you took her cake to the car for her, thats right my son, and she drove him home in the cop car.
My son has ADHD plus has impulsivity he does not think before he does anything.
Please dont get me wrong he is a great kid, it is just he hates school.
One last thing he is going to counseling , and will be for a long time, I just pray the judge dont take him away from me, He is my baby and I liv for him and all my kids, but he is a mommys boy.
Enough of me talking now, but this is what I have been going thou the last 2 days.
I hope everyone is having a great day, I know I am, time to take my son to his dads.
Love Mary
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I\'m glad everything went well with your boss, Mary. I hope you have a fantastic time in Vegas and don\'t even think about work while you\'re there.