Any Ideas what to do
I wrote my sister in-law last night, to find out if my brother had an email address, so I can let off on him. I hope you know what I mean.
This was what she wrote back.
Take it easy on him. I don't want to feel the rath of him.
How are things? Take care. I have to get ready Mitchell is coming this weekend.
3rd weekend in a row.
I did write back saying I need to let him know how I feel, and that I am more alone now, more then ever. I also said that I need to worry about my feeling and not about others feeling (in my so call family). And did tell my brother, not to bring it up to my sister in-law.
I hope you understand that.
So my question to you all is what I should do?
Im telling you all right now I can not take any more. I did not ask to have HIV.
Mary
I wrote my sister in-law last night, to find out if my brother had an email address, so I can let off on him. I hope you know what I mean.
This was what she wrote back.
Take it easy on him. I don't want to feel the rath of him.
How are things? Take care. I have to get ready Mitchell is coming this weekend.
3rd weekend in a row.
I did write back saying I need to let him know how I feel, and that I am more alone now, more then ever. I also said that I need to worry about my feeling and not about others feeling (in my so call family). And did tell my brother, not to bring it up to my sister in-law.
I hope you understand that.
So my question to you all is what I should do?
Im telling you all right now I can not take any more. I did not ask to have HIV.
Mary
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How close are you with your brother Mary? I\'m not telling anybody in my family until I really feel it\'s right. Sometimes our \'family of choice\' turn out to be our real families. I became estranged from my own brother, who I was quite close to for years. I called him up drunk one night and screamed and left what was I\'m sure a rambling and vicious message. Not that they didn\'t deserve it. His wife is an accountant and somehow they accessed my mothers credit report without her knowledge. I found out about this a few months before I had to stand up for him at his wedding. Needless to say, I never felt the same about them and it was bottled up inside of me for 2 years. I then let loose when my brother started to become very distant. I LOVE my family don\'t get me wrong, but sometimes family isn\'t all its cracked up to be. What about support groups in your area. I know this is hard. But really it could be so much worse. We could be living in 1987 instead of today. We have much better medical care now. Anyway, just trying to cheer you up a bit. I hope this helps even a little. Good night.