goal

My dream is to see our son thrive and he can't do it in this environment.  My husband, again, thinks that T can pull it off here.  I don't see it but I do know where he's coming from.  He doesn't want him to leave.  This time I don't either.  As crazy as it sounds - being that all he's put me through - I am having a difficult time with this one.  The last few times I couldn't get him out of the house soon enough because he needed treatment so badly.  My heart wants him here not only because I'll miss him and I know he will be extremely upset about having to go.  My head, however, knows we HAVE to do something.  The court is helping to do that but if T refuses to go to treatment  and decides to stand before a judge and make his "case"...he could be sent to a correctional facility.  And if he chooses to go to court -- it will take a month or more for that to happen.