T sent me on a wild goose chase yesterday.  He had the day off, got up late, and had asked me to pick him up some fast food.  He added that he needed some items from the grocery store.  I told him I wasn't going to go to the grocery because I didn't want to leave him for any length of time.  If he had given me a difficult time, red flags would have gone up.  He didn't so I went.  While I was at the store he called me a few times adding things to the list.  There were things we were low on so I didn't think anything of it.  Well......this morning I got on line.  While I was gone, one of his "dear friends" stopped by. I CAN'T STAND this kid.  It figures it would be him.  It makes me so mad.  Guess they smoked a "blunt".   This is the first time in 3 weeks he has used. All I can say is I'm glad I know because some decisions have to be made now about the help he is to receive.