I'm the only one home.  My husband took our middle son, son's friend, and a friend of his to the basketball game.  The seats are my husband's work season tickets.  Up in front and middle.  He couldn't pass it up.  I had to stay home and wait until T went off to another AA meeting.  OOps...he forgot his paper to get signed!  Hope he remembers to have someone sign something!   Talked to the assistant principal today.  I know he knows I was partly responsible for the arrest at the other school.  I should have said something.  He told me the rumors that were going around about my son being associated with the girl who was arrested.  Gosh....I'm so glad my report was anonymous.  Who cares at this point.  Anyway, he said he's meeting with our son's probation officer on Friday.  He told me that my son is going to get a good report on behavior.  His absences and grades are another story.  The two go hand in hand.   Wish my husband and I could have gone to the support group.  I really like that group.  You can vent and get advice -- I good release.  Al Anon takes care of the other part of my emotional stability.  It's a good balance between the two.......