Well..........T came home, I believe, after 3AM or so.  I was just about to call the police (I had fallen asleep) when I heard him come in.  I went back to sleep right away.  I saw on line that T was planning on going to an "OPEN HOUSE" at someone he mentioned I never heard of.  He had been gone since noon.  This court date can't come soon enough.  And this time I am speaking up.  Last time I wanted the judge to speak for us (and he did actually) but if he doesn't offer drug court (as per our wish) I am going to let him know what we are dealing with!