T has his girlfriend over to watch a movie!  This is first ......and with mom in the same room, no less!   What gives?  Anyway, his girlfriend is SOOO sweet.  Reading his instant messaging I see that she has been a positive influence in his life.  She is always encouraging him to quit cigarettes and whatever drugs he's been taking.  Currently, I think he's cut down to pot.  Even that usage seems to have waned a bit.  Even though he had a fit because I wouldn't buy him cigarettes - giving him the excuse that I wouldn't do him any favors because he didn't go to school, his all around behavior has been better.  Although his gf has been a positive influence on him, it makes it rather difficult to send him to rehab.  She was the reason he flipped out and ran off.  They've been together since this summer.