I didn't go to Al ANON last night.......my bad.  Hubby went to tennis and T was home.  I didn't want to leave the house.  While I was downstairs in the basement, I heard heavy footsteps above me.  It was T...and he left  the house at 10pm.  I checked his instant message and it looked like he was meeting someone to buy drugs.  Fortunately, he came home rather soon.  I found out later that the person he was supposed to meet, "bailed".  T seemed fine.  He didn't seem like he was under the influence or anything but maybe I'm used to the new T.  He seemed "normal".  T didn't go to school today.  I am bummed.  He even seemed to want to go but couldn't get up.  Usually, if he doesn't want to go because he's sick or whatever, he tells me right away.  I know he was tired because he was up too late.  The upside is .......my hubby and I have our soccer game tonight and tomorrow.  I just found out that I have 2 games tonight.  I am so glad to get out there and work out all my frustrations!  We won both championships so it was feeling pretty good but now our Friday night team got bumped up to the higher division.  It will be more challenging to win.  Oh well........can't win 'em all!