Well .......T came home at some point last night.  I was so exhausted that I chose to go to bed.  I actually slept through the night and upon waking.....I had no idea if he came home last night.  When I got up, I checked his room and he was home.  I am glad I had a restful sleep.  It isn't worth staying up and worrying.  What good does it do? Very happy.......our middle son was able to switch with someone at work so he will be able to join us for church and dinner!  We're going out to dinner with our best friends and their kids.  We usually eat at one of our homes on Christmas Eve - a tradition for years - but decided to go all out this year and eat at a nice restaurant!   Oldest came home yesterday.  He is such a breath of fresh air!  He had about 15 friends over last night and they all brought such cheer to our home....laughing.  They are such great kids!  They have such pure fun without any chemical substances involved.  Most of them aren't old enough to drink and the ones who are....wouldn't.  They're just so nice........